Alzheimer's and Other Dementias: Making the Most of Remaining Abilities
A person who is aware of losing some mental and functional abilities
may be depressed or frightened and may feel like a burden to those who take
care of him or her. Helping the person stay active and involved may make it
easier for both of you. Take advantage of the person's remaining abilities for
as long as possible.
For as long as he or she is able, allow the
person to make decisions about activities, food, clothing, and other
Reinforce and support the person's efforts to remain
independent, even if tasks take more time or aren't done
Tailor tasks to the person's abilities. For example, if
cooking is no longer safe, ask for help in setting the table, making simple
dishes such as salad, or shopping.
When the person needs help,
offer it gently and discreetly to protect his or her self-esteem.
Schedule activities and
tasks for times of day when the person is best able to handle them. It may be helpful
to build a routine that doesn't vary much from day to day. The person may feel less
frustrated or confused with a clear, simple daily schedule.
If you feel that the person can go out, give him or her directions. Write down the
destination, how to get there, and how to get back home, even if the person has gone
there many times before.
It is important to give a person with
dementia tasks and activities that occupy him or her
without pushing too much.
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